Risky outside influences can lead a child astray, so that the care of parents over their children avoid the school, university or a new job. The ambiguity of the school and the work is complex decisions, which directly follows a core set of values: what are the objectives, how to manage your time - even pass the time!
Parents are role models of values-based behavioral impact on personal development of their children, and this influence extends beyond theAt home to start a new school year, as children or career. Correct values based examples provide the motivation, concentration and inspiration children need to make good choices, their time to sail well and a path of success through life.
In fact, an example is the only real possibility, the values are actually reported. Take a deep breath, be good, without actually being good, often leads to negative results. Children are perceptive and quickly resume the inconsistencies betweenwhat they told their parents, and how they acted. Following these instructions, which increase with clever examples of actions that parents express their capacity values.
Of course, in order to authentically convey their values, parents must first identify and understand their values. Handbook of life, self-help program provides a model for an extraordinary life, "emphasizes that there is a positive example is only possible if the values in line with yourMeasures.
The self-help program recommended to take into account the following five meditations on the meaning of values:
1. Most values were instilled in you during your childhood, adolescence and early adulthood.
2. Your values are your priorities in order to prioritize the values in order to act effectively in a manner that what one thinks of such payment.
3. You must honor and respect your values.
4. If you are truly in touch with your values,They are a tool for motivation. Values tell you when to say yes, when to say no, and what to do in conditions of extreme stress and in times of uncertainty.
5. It 'always start correctly, values-driven decisions to lose, because no matter what happens, you never your values. It 'only a matter of identification.
Think about what he had to say to a parent. Dru Narwahi was a success, but very busy member of the Management Board of the Bank and the father, who recognized the contradiction betweenhis way of life and its values. One day he noticed his young children watched in silence as he rested after work. His mother had ordered them to share their experiences in school as shares not burden it. Then he realized: "I was so separate and so much to do ... my values are family, health and integrity, but I had the tracks, who lost. I said:" It is time to follow my values.
A recent study by Penn State University, shows how to helppositive decisions like these are more important than many parents might suspect. In analyzing the most effective deterrent to prevent adolescent drug use, the report concludes that the personal example - also about the experience - adds credibility to the message of parents how to communicate with their children on drugs. For more information about this study visit, http://www.psu.edu/ur/2005/dialogue.html.
As the author writes Joseph Chilton Pearce: "what we are, the child learnsmuch more than what we say, so that we do what we want to be our children. "When parents know that they are their values and act in accord with them, the parents a living example that the hearing is legitimate and deserves.
Additional Resources
-> The Rockridge Institute also has a useful list of ways to communicate family values. V. [http://www.rockridgeinstitute.org/projects/strategic/nationasfamily/npworldview]
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